I've been noticing a pattern, I think. Since I've really gotten over guy numero uno I've been reaching out to people that can't really be guy numero dos. Three of the major love interests since my break up have been either literally hundreds of miles away or too unrealistic for other reasons to ever expect anything to come out of it. So, is it fear of commitment? Is it... not wanting commitment? Is it just that I happen to be falling for very inconvenient guys and they happen to fall for me too? What is it, really? I don't know. read more »